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July 3, 2005    #6

FEATURE EDITORIAL

Where, Oh Where Did I Go?           

How does each of us learn to sing?

We all started as fans first!  No one got up and grabbed a mic in the cradle one morning already knowing how to sing.  How we learned to sing was by listening to other singers, especially those we liked on radio or CD's, and spending lots of time singing our favorite songs by them.  I know how easy it is for me to lose myself in a favorite song, and sing like my life depends on it.  But life DOES depend on it!  We're singers because there's a particular experience of being alive that can only be found in singing and we'll do anything to have that experience because it feels so great.   So losing myself in singing a favorite song is an experience of my aliveness, and I can easily find that in favorite recordings by other singers.

But here's the catch:  when we learn to sing this way, we get used to losing ourselves in the experience of singing as a fan, a listener, even though we sing along with everything we've got. It's the singing ALONG that sets up the problem.  Essentially, we are following another singer and connecting ourselves with their emotional experience, that is, losing ourselves in the emotion their singing inspired in us. 

So what happens when we step in front of the mic ourselves, as a solo singer with no one else's emotional lead to follow?  This apparent crisis became very clear to me recently during a young student's weekly voice lesson, and her dilemma really got me thinking.  What does it REALLY take to generate our own emotional experience and interpretation when we sing someone else's song?  My young student, a particularly talented singer, had never had to deal with GENERATING the song, really being its source.  Yet to really sing and move others with our voice, we need to be the source of the emotion and what each word means to us.  For most singers, this is the real deal of singing.  Forget about high notes!  How we really sing is by tapping into our own emotional core and communicating our real truth with the voice.  But what if we've always been singing along, and haven't separated the experience of singing as a fan from singing as THE emotional source of the song, with no other voice to lean on or lead us?  This ability is what truly defines a singer and their impact on an audience.  The singer's job is to communicate to us so deeply that they make us feel what they feel!  But how can we do this if we haven't examined specifically what we mean to communicate?

So here's the lesson:  pick a song you'd like to sing and write out the lyrics on lined paper, using every other line.  On the blank lines between the lyrics, using a different color, write below each line of lyric exactly what that line means to you, in your OWN words.  Find a way to restate it that is specific to you.  Then go back and read the lyrics as they originally were written.  Do they speak to you more now that you have examined them in a new way?  Now read the "new" version of the song in your own words.  Does the song have a new or deeper meaning for you?  If it doesn't, go back and repeat the exercise until it does.  Then, once you have reached a new emotional level with the song, sing it without listening to the recording.  Don't pay any attention to how you sound.  Only pay attention to how you feel.  Can you put all your emotion into the voice?  I hope so, because this time, it's really YOUR emotion!

If you are interested in taking the full seven-part email course, The Emotions Course that studies emotion, interpretation and really communicating with your singing, please visit the sign-up page

I'd love to hear some of your results from these resonance experiments.  Send me an email of your success stories!   If this is something you are trying for the first time and have questions or are unclear about any part of it, please email us at info@sing-in-tune.com

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